Do you always have a clear direction in life? On what you truly want to do, who you really want to become, the significant target to which you will really strive towards, the ultimate dream that you want for coming true, the crystal clear idea of where you would be in 5 years from now.
I've always been the type of persons who will try to do the best in what they do. But when it comes to setting the goals, I suck. I find myself going with the flow most of the time, pretty much reliant on what life has given me along the way. Basically, I pretty much leave it for fate to take its course.
Guess that's what sets us to be different. Not necessarily a bad thing thou. For someone with a vague and uncertain goal, there really has to be someone who's taking charge in steering towards the direction of the dream. Marriage has taught us that it shouldn't always be one person's dream, but rather the dream of the both of us. He's always been ambitious, always knows what he wants and who he wants to be. Ambition, its also a double edged dagger, it could either make you or break you. It's important that one stays strong in the process of achieving it. You need some luck and a truck load of perseverance.
My simple 'want' in life, in all the harshness of reality, is to stay in the environment where I am happy, making people I love happy and don't have to worry about anything else in the world. Happiness is underrated, I'd trade for some with the money I have.
